{"id":1369,"date":"2025-02-26T06:40:00","date_gmt":"2025-02-26T06:40:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/thebighopeletters.com\/?p=1369"},"modified":"2025-02-25T16:00:31","modified_gmt":"2025-02-25T16:00:31","slug":"20-20-vision","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thebighopeletters.com\/?p=1369","title":{"rendered":"20\/20 Vision"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Today, as I had breakfast with my husband, I overheard the table next to me talking about how interesting it was that this person would lose their job, only to get a better job that made their life circumstances better.&nbsp; They commented how lucky she was.<\/p><p>Hindsight is 20\/20.&nbsp; Oftentimes we have hard things happen to us, only to see a much better circumstance come out of it.&nbsp; It got me thinking about an experience that I had that had an amazing outcome.<\/p><p>When my mom was diagnosed with congestive heart failure, I was living in Sandy, Utah, running my first company, Utah Property Solutions.&nbsp; We secured bank owned properties, fixed them up if they were hazardous, and maintained them until they were sold.&nbsp;<\/p><p>Utah Property Solutions was just starting to take contracts out of the state of Utah and had a promising outcome, however I knew that I would be taking care of my mom.&nbsp; I had a conflict.&nbsp; When she had her second big heart attack, her heart didn\u2019t have the function capability and she would need to have continual care.<\/p><p>During this time, I found a home in a small town in Pleasant Grove, close to family and decided to move.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p><p>I felt like I couldn\u2019t give the care she needed and run a company.&nbsp; Mom had taken care of me and I decided that I could take care of her.&nbsp; The company was dissolved and I took on a Real Estate job to stay home with her.<\/p><p>There were many times I would lay with her, dreaming about a fun little job I could do for myself that would be rewarding, and keep our family together.&nbsp; She had so many suggestions but nothing was forthcoming.<\/p><p>Not too long after the move, my mother passed on to a happier place, without the disease she had here.&nbsp; I had the pleasure of meeting other \u201cmothers\u201d that would fill the need of mine.&nbsp; One of these ladies brought me chocolate after an event she went to.&nbsp; I wasn\u2019t the biggest fan of chocolate so it sat on my counter for a few weeks.<\/p><p>One afternoon, I broke down and tried it.\u00a0 It was wonderful.\u00a0 This thought popped in my head.  I wonder if I could do that?<\/p><p>Fast forward to today.&nbsp; I have a successful chocolate shop I run with my daughters.&nbsp; It has been a joy and a challenge, but fulfilling.<\/p><p>I can\u2019t help but smile when I think about her and I, dreaming of a little company that might fill my needs.<\/p><p>I know that the fingerprints of God were all through this journey, maybe with a little bit of mom asking God for something like this just for me.<\/p><p>Had I known the outcome of this journey beforehand, I might have not struggled through the experience, learning the things I needed to and growing in a way that God intended.  He knows what is best for us and cares for us in a way we could never imagine.  Of that I&#8217;m grateful.<\/p><p><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Today, as I had breakfast with my husband, I overheard the table next to me talking about how interesting it was that this person would lose their job, only to get a better job that made their life circumstances better.&nbsp; They commented how lucky she was. Hindsight is 20\/20.&nbsp; Oftentimes we have hard things happen to us, only to see a much better circumstance come out of it.&nbsp; It got me thinking about an experience that I had that had an amazing outcome. When my mom was diagnosed with congestive heart failure, I was living in Sandy, Utah, running my first company, Utah Property Solutions.&nbsp; We secured bank owned properties, fixed them up if they were hazardous, and maintained them until they were sold.&nbsp; Utah Property Solutions was just starting to take contracts out of the state of Utah and had a promising outcome, however I knew that I would be taking care of my mom.&nbsp; I had a conflict.&nbsp; When she had her second big heart attack, her heart didn\u2019t have the function capability and she would need to have continual care. During this time, I found a home in a small town in Pleasant Grove, close to family and decided to move.&nbsp;&nbsp; I felt like I couldn\u2019t give the care she needed and run a company.&nbsp; Mom had taken care of me and I decided that I could take care of her.&nbsp; The company was dissolved and I took on a Real Estate job to stay home with her. There were many times I would lay with her, dreaming about a fun little job I could do for myself that would be rewarding, and keep our family together.&nbsp; She had so many suggestions but nothing was forthcoming. Not too long after the move, my mother passed on to a happier place, without the disease she had here.&nbsp; I had the pleasure of meeting other \u201cmothers\u201d that would fill the need of mine.&nbsp; One of these ladies brought me chocolate after an event she went to.&nbsp; I wasn\u2019t the biggest fan of chocolate so it sat on my counter for a few weeks. One afternoon, I broke down and tried it.\u00a0 It was wonderful.\u00a0 This thought popped in my head. I wonder if I could do that? Fast forward to today.&nbsp; I have a successful chocolate shop I run with my daughters.&nbsp; It has been a joy and a challenge, but fulfilling. I can\u2019t help but smile when I think about her and I, dreaming of a little company that might fill my needs. I know that the fingerprints of God were all through this journey, maybe with a little bit of mom asking God for something like this just for me. Had I known the outcome of this journey beforehand, I might have not struggled through the experience, learning the things I needed to and growing in a way that God intended. He knows what is best for us and cares for us in a way we could never imagine. 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