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    The Unexpected Post-Pornography Blessing

    Earlier this month, I shared my testimony about pornography at the pulpit. I felt hesitant because it involved my 20-something son. I had recently had a conversation with him, wherein he said, “I’m thankful for my pornography problem, because I came to Jesus through fighting it. I don’t think I would have built a relationship with Him otherwise.” This was inspiring to me because his mission was really hard for him and he didn’t love it (although now he is starting to realize what it did for him). But he clearly recognizes the fruits of his pornography battle. As I shared his insights, I was nervous. (I told the audience…

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    Never Miss a Prompting

    On one occasion many years ago, I was swimming laps at the old Deseret Gym in Salt Lake City when I felt the inspiration to go to the University Hospital to visit a good friend of mine who had lost the use of his lower limbs because of a malignancy and the surgery which followed. I immediately left the pool, dressed, and was soon on my way to see this good man. When I arrived at his room, I found that it was empty. Upon inquiry I learned I would probably find him in the swimming pool area of the hospital, an area which was used for physical therapy. Such…

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    The Angel at my Door

    When I first moved to Pleasant Grove, I brought with me my two daughters and my mother.  It was a big step.  I had moved into a town where I knew almost no-one.  I had purchased this big old home that needed work but I loved it. I had spent many hours dreaming of how to fix up and decorate this home and had so many ideas!   I remember one specific day, really wanting to go shopping.  It was a Saturday, and I wanted to get out of the house and go shopping.  Maybe to a yard sale.  Or maybe to the Deseret Industries.  I was hoping I might get…

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    The Miracle of Life

    In April of 1961 my family was on vacation visiting family in Idaho. They were heading back home to Riverside California going through Oregon. My mom was 34 weeks pregnant with me at the time and she was getting antsy.  She was hoping that if she drove that would help her. My dad pulled over and let her drive and he then took a nap on one of the seats of their VW van.  Several miles down the road, the Axel of the van broke and my mom lost control. The VW ended up rolling a few times which threw my father out and killed him instantly. My siblings had…

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    Small Blessings

    I have the most beautiful tender mercy I thought I’d share with you, prefaced with a little background.   When I go to church every week, I always just slip in the back usually because I’m either right on time, or slightly late and can avoid any kind of disruption of the worship walking in front of people, having people scoot over, etc.  In the back of the church, the chairs are hard, with the softer benches at the front of the chapel.  They are uncomfortable!  There have been more than a few times I’ve complained to my friend how hard the chairs are, longing for padded chairs. This morning, as…

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    The Gift

    Miracles big and small all come from the same place.  The difference is that we often claim the small ones as lucky, something that just aligned in our lives for no reason.  We celebrated the gift giving part of Christmas late, since some of us were sick the day of actual Christmas.  There was one son I hadn’t purchased a gift for. I had really pondered what I should give him.  He has a partner now and so it was even more challenging choosing what to get them both that would be thoughtful.  Finally, after much thought, I decided to get him a gift card at one of the local…